10 Desember. Bos saya berulang-tahun. Tidak cuma 1 bos, tapi 2! Satunya memang benar-benar Bos saya, satunya teman baik yang sering saya panggil Bos (eh...dia juga kalo manggil saya Bos...). I wish the best for both of you and your families...
Sekarang, apa sih pentingnya ulang tahun?
Sebagian ada yang memandang ulang tahun sebagai hari yang luar biasa, harus dinikmati, bisa mati kalo dilewatkan! Satu hari dalam setahun (dalam 4 tahun malah kalo kamu lahir tanggal 29 Februari!) dimana kamu adalah raja! Satu hari dimana kamu bisa senyum terus...(susah kan, senyum dengan hati berbunga-bunga sepanjang hari?). On the other hand, ada yang mandang bahwa hari ultah itu hanya satu hari dari 365 hari setahun. Hari yang sama sekali tidak berbeda dengan hari lainnya. Hari dimana kamu harus ke sekolah, berangkat kerja, dan mengerjakan segala sesuatu seperti hari-hari kemarin. Tidak ada kue, tidak ada kartu ucapan, atau ciuman selamat ultah. Yang ada adalah PR, deadline, cangkir kopi yang belum dicuci, pakaian kotor, dan nasi bungkus.
What about you? Which side will you stand? OK, here's my opinion.
Momen dan konsisten.
Hampir semua orang memerlukan momen untuk hidup lebih baik, momen untuk memperbaiki diri, untuk kontemplasi, waktu untuk diam sejenak untuk mempersiapkan diri bergerak ke depan. Kita perlu momen untuk mengurai apa yang telah kita lakukan, mengevaluasi, dan mengambil langkah terbaik untuk hari esok. Momen itu bisa berupa apa saja, Tahun Baru, Hari Besar Keagamaan, hari besar nasional, tanggal-tanggal spesial, ato hari ulang tahun. Banyak orang yang memandang hari ultah sebagai hari spesial untuk merenung, berikrar, bahkan bermertamorfosis (yeah...sebagian besar sih melewatkan begitu saja dengan makan-makan).
Kalau begitu, mengapa tidak setiap hari saja kita mengevaluasi diri? Mengapa harus nunggu momen? Kalo setiap saat berkontemplasi dan memperbaiki diri, bukannya jauh lebih bagus?
Yup, itu jauh lebih bagus? Sayangnya, sangat sedikit dari kita yang bisa seperti itu. Hanya sedikit hari sekian milyar penduduk bumi yang dengan sabar menelisik diri setia hari. Hampir seluruhnya melewatkan sepanjang tahun dengan bekerja keras, belajar dengan giat, bersenang-senang, sibuk dengan berbagai klub, organisasi, ini itu..dsb.
Sebagian besar dari kita termasuk golongan orang yang tidak konsisten. Kita mungkin sudah berikrar akan menjadi orang yang lebih baik, lebih giat, lebih sabar, lebih tenang, mulai berolahraga, mengurangi rokok, tidak menyentuk junk food lagi, ..dst...dst... tapi sangat sudah untuk konsisten secara terus-menerus. "Grafik kebaikan" kita tidak linier naik terus-menerus. "Grafik kesabaran" kita seperti detak jantung manusia di mesin pendeteksi di ICU rumah sakit, naik turun. Saya adalah contoh yang amat nyata akan ketidakkonsistenan itu.
Karen itu saya perlu momen. Momen untuk diam sesaat dan menganalisa diri. Momen untuk mundur selangkah dan maju dua-tiga langkah. Saya tidak konsisten tuk hidup lebih baik terus-menerus, saya perlu momen. Mungking ulang tahun, mungkin tahun baru...atau mungkin hari-hari tertentu lainnya.
Tidak ada kue ultah untuk saya. Kartu juga jarang (atau langka?) yang memberikan untuk saya. Tapi bukan berarti saya tidak merayakannya. I celebrate my birthday with my own way. I always try to enjoy that moment for the sake of my life, my family.
Bos(s) saya ultah sekarang. Tidak tahu, apakah mereka merayakannya ato tidak. Tapi saya berharap mereka akan selalu sehat bersama keluarga, menjadi cahaya bagi orang sekitarnya, memberi rasa damai bagi orang-orang yang berbicara dengannya, memberi rasa aman bagi orang-orang yang dipeluknya...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! ENJOY THIS DAY. IT'S YOURS!
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Wayne Rooney and Dimitar Berbatov. Photograph: Barry Coombs/Empics
It is a curious experience to be both outplayed and wronged. A wry Celtic supporter struck the correct balance in a well-constructed complaint. "They weren't the ones needing help from the officials," he said in mock indignation. The Dimitar Berbatov goals that put Manchester United 2-0 ahead had been taken from marginally offside positions.
There could be no tirade from the Celtic manager, Gordon Strachan, even if he did touch upon the lapses by the referee, Frank de Bleeckere, and his assistants. Eventually United's superiority was marked.
Injuries that ruled out the strikers Jan Vennegoor of Hesselink and Georgios Samaras went part of the way to explaining the visitors' ineffectuality but the deeper truth lies in the divided nature of the Champions League. United and Villarreal are already close to qualification for the group phase, while Celtic and Aalborg grapple for a spot in the Uefa Cup.
Swift progress is virtually demanded at English clubs by managers who know that energy has to be conserved for the Premier League. There could be no element of the unknown in this meeting of title-holders from either side of the border. All the same the élan from Sir Alex Ferguson's team was fitful.
It mattered little that a groin injury kept Rio Ferdinand out. The line-up for the Champions League holders looked designed to deal briskly with Celtic but Strachan's side were competitive at the outset. United, however, can be patient, as they showed at the weekend when their four goals against West Bromwich Albion all came in the second half. Indeed a Darren Fletcher goal against Newcastle in August remains the only one scored here in the first half of any league fixture.
When Celtic did fall behind, in the 30th minute, the goal was galling. John O'Shea got a foot to Nani's corner but Berbatov was fractionally offside as he put the ball into the net. A team with the away record in the Champions League of Celtic is under enough pressure as it is without errors from officials.
They have now drawn one and lost the other 18 fixtures on their travels in this competition. With his team's two tall forwards ruled out, Strachan had mused about the possibility of Snow White leading out the side. The line-up was not uniformly diminutive but the manager was wise to look for relaxing humour.
Celtic gave a reasonable account of themselves before the interval. At that stage United had been flat. Only the composition of the team suggested verve, with Cristiano Ronaldo and Nani flanking the central strikers, Wayne Rooney and Berbatov. Strachan's team were containing that attack and, before half-time, had carried some menace of their own.
It was Edwin van der Sar who needed to make saves, putting efforts by Aiden McGeady and Gary Caldwell behind. Celtic's system of containment was functioning, yet United are well accustomed to wrecking plans of that sort.
The danger to Celtic was sporadic. Nani set up Rooney for a drive that was blocked by Mark Wilson and later Ronaldo missed the target from a promising position. All the same Fletcher, on the verge of the interval, should have doubled the lead instead of hacking Rooney's chip over the bar. Celtic had performed better than many had imagined, yet were losing and at risk of more harm.
Six minutes into the second half United killed off this match. Though Ronaldo's free-kick moved in the air, the goalkeeper Artur Boruc ought to have done better than palm it into the middle of the goalmouth, from where Berbatov scored a second time. The Bulgarian had again been marginally offside when the set piece was taken but soon afterwards the flag was raised wrongly against Rooney when he had the ball in the net. It is a moot point whether Celtic's mood will be improved by evidence that poor officiating was at work rather than a conspiracy.
Berbatov is most likely cursing machinations but there was nothing covert about them. The forward was denied the prospect of a hat-trick because Ferguson replaced him with Carlos Tevez. Having made sure of the win here, the manager attended to forward planning. The player removed will have to content himself with a spree of five goals in four matches.
There was no more than professionalism to sustain the visitors. Tevez was soon compelling Boruc to tip an attempt round the post. Rooney made the goalkeeper put a shot over the bar before striking at last in the 76th minute, from a Tevez pass. This had been one more away match in Europe to be met with stoicism by Celtic.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/football/2008/oct/22/championsleague-manchesterunited